Seriously! It was “her” idea to give me the boot!
But! She did me both, a favor & a blessing in disguise. As you know! The conversion was hard. She always (or supposedly!) did just about all the things. When I got the boot! In about 5 months, I took over the paying of my bills, grocerIies and then some. She thought that! I would surrender to her. Did not.
When I was married to her. She and still! Has a gambling addiction. So! What she did was. Save as much money as she could. So that she had more than enough money to feed her online/offline gambling addiction by.
The bottom line here is! I can do more things with less money. (SSI). While she does fewer things with more money!
Living by myself! I can do things, go places, eat, drink, etc.
It is hard in a way. Because! The three of them were in my life. Now & then I do feel sad for my oldest son. Because what he has to go through with her. Even though The way I was being treated by them. It felt like I was somewhere between. A slave, and a prisoner.
The details I will not go into.
I am a lot happier than I was when I was with them.
Somehow! When iI walk down the street. There are women of all ages, saying “hi!” to me and or “how are you?” as well. I don’t catch it!
But as I go along! I’ll catch on!