DRIVE, FUTURESHOCK, MODERN TIMES, HIGH TECH,, Uncategorized

FLYING CARS!

It’s one of those things. We read & heard in sci-fi books, magazines. about one-day actually owning a “FLYING CAR”

As kids! If you remember! A cartoon series called “the jetsons”  . Where flying cars via cartoon became real.

The “Real” question is? “Would we be as careful in the air? As we are not on the ground (as if?). In general! Drivers are dangerous on the ground, as they would be in the air!

YES!

It would be less crowded as per traffic. But! We have to share the airspace with others aka planes, choppers, and other fellow space travelers.

Which would generate even more problems in the air! As we current;y have on the ground!

I can see it now! Complaints! In the air! As on the ground!

With what we encounter here on the ground! We will!!!!!!! Encounter in the air! DUI/OVI’S & then some!

When we watched “The Jetsons!” It waa a very much a simpler life & time!

Are we really moving with the times?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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ABOUT, BELIEFS, SHIT, DISTURBERS, RUMORS, EARTH, FLAT,, Uncategorized

IS THE EARTH REALLY FLAT?

 

This is one for the ages!

I have heard, read reports/stories. About how some people believe it is true. Two questions will remain until proven otherwise: How so”? “Prove it”?

If the earth is flat? There would be no kind/type of commerce/leisure at all. All ships would go over the edge & will not be seen/heard from again. Even the long, tall ships.

But! If let’s say “gravity” did play a part? Then it might be true. For now! It has yet to be proven.

Could it be? Conspiracy theorists? At work again? Those people should be in the “NUTHOUSE” “ASAP POST-HASTE! What do some people call them? “SHIT DISTURBERSBERS”

Unfortunately! People love a rumor! If not? Then Hollywood would not be Hollywood! And Trump would not be where he currently is! But that is another time.

Until those who believe the earth is flat? I will stick with the earth is round!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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WHAT DOES IT TAKE? TO GET OUT OF AN ABUSIVE NARSSISTIC RELATIONSHIP?

 

I spent over 40 years in one! The ex! Nearly had me thinking, believing. I could not survive/live without her. Somehow I knew I could. The one too many things! About abusive narcissists are! They sat one thing but mean the other. They abusively “LIE” to a point it’s like an addiction with then. They lie so perfection to a fault that! Other fellow narcissists do not that the people they meet, talk to are “carbon copies” of them as well. They will believe in what they tell them and think nothing of it!

I had a so-called friend (if? He can be called that!) is a narcissist as well. I told both of them. If they ever got together and hit it off! In time! They would go at each other’s throats! And try killing one another! That is how much both of them have in one another. Both of them laughed at it. Normal!

No matter how much narcissism they have. You cannot tell them they are. Because they think they do not have any of it. They may know the word. But! They do not know the ingredients of it.

As unfortunate things do happen. All those years! She antagonized, harassed, pressured me. To do something. At the same time! She knew that I would not lay a hand on her. Then! Came the time! I could not take it at all!!!!!!

She ran her mouth off one too many times. She got What she came looking and wanted! I had the absolute. No choice! I slapped her! It could have been much worse! Considering the abuse I encountered and taken from her. Even I know that.

That was the one! She found me a place to live. Oddly enough!

To this day! I still wonder why? Did she even bother to reconnect with me and get married? No love at all. She pretended to be in love with me. There was nothing! That can/could be called love at all.

All I could think is this. When she and I got back together. I had a job, money, car, investments.

Her! A box that she called her “hope chest. AKA? “Pisspot poor!” And she did not like it one bit!

It’s very hard for a woman who is in one. To get out of it. For me? She made it seem like it was. The conversion was hard! But! I made it!

That one question will always remain! Why? Do they do it?

 

 

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STANDARDS, PRACTICES, TOO, MUCH, REQUIRMENTS,, Uncategorized

STANDARDS & PRACTICES! IN FINDING THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE (FOR ME)!

 

Because! In my last disastrous marriage! I bypassed friendship! And got married! Bad thing to do!

Now! This weekend. I have learned all about my enemy aka the ex even more.

And I learned about the how to’s! In finding that special someone for me. I think we all. Do not really know the how to’s and the what we have in mind Vs. What do we get?

For some. They come close but not close enough for that someone. Looking back! I was nowhere to be found! When it came to her (the ex).

Now! I will not rule out anyone but! I will have both eyes open for when she does come along.

I know what my first requirement/specification is!

Starting out! As friends first! This is where the seed of friendship and relationships start and begin.

It seems like? No one really, truly wants that. Why? IDK? It maybe that. In this life & time, day & age. Women want a real! Relationship. While guys? Will do/say anything just to get some sex! And what do women get in the long & short term? Screwed! In more ways than one!

With me! Sex is the last thing! In my mind! I want to get to know the woman. And for her to get to know me as well. As I said! Friendship/relationship.

The things that I look for in a woman are?

The usual! Looks, style, shape! But! What really attracts me to a woman is? Her mind!!!!!!!!!

I want someone that I can talk to. Not just the other things.

To give you an idea about my standards/requirements!. low! Narcissistic! All have it! Some! More than others!
Attitude: http://www.dictionary.com/browse/attitude Just to make clear! Taking care of herself! How many times have we seen women? Who just! Put anything on, let their hair, make-up (or none) and just go looking like either! They just came off the streets from an all night. Or a bad drug trip! Or! They just do not care about themselves at all!
Empathy/apathy!
Loves life, her man, her family!
Is in it for the long term/haul!
Kids! At my age? (61!) I have to say No!
She does not care about whom makes the most money at all! She & I are working on/for the same thing(S).
Does not believe in! Yelling, hollering, screaming!
We plan things in life!
Comprise? An option!
Always! Talking to one another!
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Always! Being there for each other!
Hanging! Tough! No matter what!
To you ladies! Is it way!!!!! Too much for you?

LET’S TALK ABOUT IT?

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ABUSIVE NARCSSIST! AKA THE EX!

WHAT IS NARCISSISTIC ABUSE?

NARCISSIST 

 

At the start!

When I met her. IDNK! What narcissism was! I used to call her a “hypocrite” But I was wrong.

It was not until I came across a tweet on twitter from psych central called: 12 signs to spot a narcissist. I read it. And she has the every one of them! I spent from Friday through the weekend to Monday! Researching it.

The interesting thing(s) about them. Is that if say, tell, call them a narcissist! They will deny it! Or you are wrong!

The links! Have the basic information needed to spot them!

One of many things they love to do is!

LIE! The ex-lied so much! It was like an addiction! She told me that! Her dad taught his kids to lie. (Keep in mind! Her dad is from WVA coal mining country. Him and his brothers, friends burned down the one-room schoolhouse.And they all were left with a sixth-grade education! In those days you lived by your wits! So lying was important to exist!)

When I was married to her. She used my name & SSI to make out credit card applications.

She pretended to be in love with me. But! As some of you know. There is a difference between. Going through the motions and saying “I love you”! and actually feeling it! Knowing it! That person does!

The ex did more things wrong than right.

They will come up with so many excuses of why they should sit on their asses! And the husband and kids should do any/all the work around the house.

I found another article about abusive narcissists. That! Is what got me started on this.

The narcissists mind! Is “really” screwed up!

They think nothing! About what comes out of their mouth! I can only describe what comes out of her mouth as? “cosmic” The most outrageous things I ever heard!

There was one time when! The cover plate on the hot water tank was missing. I asked her “what happened to it?” She said: IDK! “perhaps! one of the cats removed it”! I said: You mean? “one of the cats somehow sharpened one of their claws as Philips screwdriver and removed it”? She said: “that’s right”!

Narcissists! Also think thy work harder on the job than you! They make more money than you! They think they are WAY! smarter than you!

Hint! Narcissists! Come much shorter than they think! In actuality! They are no smarter than the next person! But! You cannot tell them that! It would be like? Knocking them off their pedestal! Their self-esteem is way beyond fragile! They do not mind hurting you! But! Do not you hurt them!

They are “one-way” people. They think! Any & all things should go in one direction! They do not like/love themselves at all! Because they do not know how nor anything about it. More than likely! It’s because of the way their parents were raised. This is a fact when it comes to her. Narcissists also think there is nothing wrong with them! They think it the other way around!

I am right! And all the world is wrong! Is the one too many philosophies they have going against them.

They will not! Seek mental help for their problem at all!

In some ways! At times! I do feel so very sorry for her. For the way, she was raised by her father. He did tell me many times. He raised his kids the same way he was raised. Because! The way he was raised. To him, there was nothing wrong. Little does he or his “young’uns know!

 

 

 

 

 

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"CHOKE MODE, KIDS, Uncategorized

FROM LITTLE FEARS TO BIG FEARS!

 

When you are a kid. With parents who raised you from little to no parenting. They leave you with more fears than any kid can handle.

I grew up not knowing what’s what! What to expect from life itself. The human race as well.

When I started school! My mom did not tell me why I had to go to school. I just had to go that’s all. The hard part of going to school was? The teachers! Young kids! Meeting the “real” old shool” teachers. I had to convert to each and every teacher because of the ways and means each teacher had as to how to teach the class.

Paddling! Was the normal punishment at the time. either a yardstick of paddling. One fmr. the student brought in a block of wood for one of his teachers and asked him if he wanted him to make him a paddle? He agreed! Each and every time one of his students acted up! He would say:”just wait until I get my paddle!” “you will be the 1st one to get it!”

FEARS BUILD!

I can remember! At home. Watch tv! Tv stations would air public service announcements (PSA”S). There would be a certain amount of scariness in them. I think it was to get the viewers attention. It sure got mine!

One was about seat belts, smoking, air pollution. It’s the way! they went about it! That increased my fears.

I think our biggest fear is! Not knowing of the what’s to come! Has to be no.1! We all have that!

It’s worse when you’re a kid with parents! But! they are nowhere to be found when you needed them.

Today! My fears have been reduced to little! to none! I do have my usual everyday fears as anyone does. But in my 60’s! They are not as bad as they were in my younger years.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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CONDITIONS, PARENTS, Uncategorized

WHAT’S IT LIKE BEING A KID ON WELFARE IN THE 60’s?

 

When you are a child on welfare. You do not know the word itself!

My dad was going in & out of jobs. He did not have much of an education. He had an eighth-grade education. So he was an “unskilled laborer My parents went on welfare.

I did not like the sound of it! I had some kids in the area. Thinking My parents were “well off” I could not stand and face the kids and tell them “my parents and I are on “welfare!”

We had to move from the near west side. To the very near west side. We spent about three years, living what was called at that time “Paradise for the poor” Because it was a public housing development for people who were either were on welfare or low income.

Either way! It was living in respect & dignity!

As a kid! Welfare took very good care of the three of us. Especially me!

Looking back. It was not as bad as I thought it was.Because in those days. As a kid! They made sure you breakfast to lunch, dinner everyday.

 

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