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What if Your Friend Does Not Want to Make Up

If your friend is still angry with you, he or she might want to stay away rather than make up.

Source: What if Your Friend Does Not Want to Make Up

When friendships “break up, end. The hardest part of all is! “Mending fences” Aka! Forgiving and moving on as friends. Sometimes there is no “as before” because one or the other has a different way, attitude about the two of you.

It is unfortunate that! We have not learned how to “forgive”. We are “HUMAN!”. We do make mistakes! We say, do things we don’t mean. I think the reason for that is! If and when! there is an argument. We say things in the “heat of the moment” just to get the “upper hand” in the argument. Then later? We regret what we said.

This! Is where/when we have an even tougher time in apologizing for what was said. Because! the other feels:”you said what you meant, that’s more than enough!”.

We can only wish! “Time heals all wounds!”.

 

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What if? We could create another life on another planet?

It’s just a thought but! What if?

I can remember my sixth-grade teacher telling the class: “Ir’s been said that there is life perhaps on the moon!” Keep in mind! this was in the late 60’s. While we were going to land on the moon in a short time.

But! What if we could do it? Would we start all over again? Start fresh? Almost from scratch?

What are some of the things we are doing wrong here? That! We could do differently if not make it better? Long list! I know!

The possibilities! that could exist for us. I don’t think. There is a planet that comes close to us in terms of? the air we breathe, foods we eat, drink and so on. What if there was?

Who are the people we pick to start this new way of life? How would we choose? Lottery? Examination (both mental and psychically), By Application? Want ads? First, come! first, serve? Who would want to? Age ltd.? This is not something for the “faint at heart!”

Would we still stay in touch with the folks down here?

Would this be like? the ISS? Send cargo into space at certain times?

Let’s just say that! We can do most anything on that planet as we do here. Would mankind/humanity! Change? We would leave all this behind and go to our new home. Only this time! We a race. Will make it much better.

Now! If only? We had the chance and the planet?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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HOW TO LIVE ON THE CHEAP! BUT! GOOD!

I will be updating this as time goes on.

From being on my own. For three years. I should know something!

From going to “Aldi’ to “GFS” (Gordon Food Service”) And all things in-between! There are many different ways.

I go to GFS to buy my favorites! Food service trays of lasagna to mac & cheese, ravioli, so much more. This helps me stretch my food supply until the next month.

What I do with the food service cans of “chef-boy-ardee’s” ravioli. I take the sauce and use it when making other kinds of pasta.

When? And where possible! Always! Buy in bulk!

What lots of people do not know is that! You can reduce your electric bill dramatically!

Simply be unplugging what items you are not using at the time. An electrician informed me about it. IT WORKS! You will see the difference in about 2-3 months! Provided you stick to it!

I am not a “coupon clipper!” I think it’s a waste of time! Provided you know where the good deals are? Even if in those places that accept coupons. You are that much further ahead.

Not many of us. Know that! When you have bottles of body wash, shampoo dish soap and then some. What I do is. Turn the bottles upside down. It may seem silly! But! In due time, you will see a difference. You will not be going to the store as much. And buying the same thing because of it.

In buying anything that hs the energy star on it. Do so. That is where you can really save! Only if! You have to! Do not go to these other grocery stores like Save-a-lot and others. Only if necessary.

Cell phones! This! Is one close to everyone’s heart! Always!!!! Look for the best talk, text, data rates you can find. Even if you have to buy the phone. Depending on. The data you use. It’s still the best way to go. Some have extras! It just takes the time to find it.

I need to point out! You still need “Landline” service. Because! If the power goes out. Or! The power grid goes down! What do you have left? Cell phones last while the battery does! Then what?

During the “cold months!” Is the heat still enough? Try “space heaters”. Even the low priced one’s work. Weatherproofing! Using plastic sheets can work as well. Do not! Buying something because it says it’s for covering the windows and doors. What it says! Vs. What it really does? Two different things.

TBC!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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I AM JUST GLAD IT’S ALL OVER!

From al the shit! I have encountered!

From bosses! To co-workers! And any/all in-between!

Bosses who are drunk with power. To “wannabe bosses” who try to gain the upper hand of their department. You know who you are! Attitudes, mentalities, screwballs! the list is endless!

Towards the end! There was one guy! Who was an abusive narcissist! He would pick on me, call me names to try to get me to quit! Did not work! This was a place that somehow? knew who to hire!

The people there. We’re either. Mama’s boys/Daddies girls! Aka! Spoiled rotten overgrown kids!! Who always got their ways! The woman who was in charge of HR! Made sure the women were taken care of. While the men! We’re treated as slaves to the women.

Way too much to loose sleep over!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO BELIEVES IN THIS? PT.1 ?

The reason I put a “?” at the end is that. I may come up with other things.

 

I would like to start out! With what I believe in.

I know! There are guys out there who believe in being the “HEAD” of the relationship! Right from the very beginning. I do not! You may ask why?

I believe that! The woman does know more than perhaps! The man does. But! It also depends on? the upbringing, education, what she has learned as she was growing up.

I believe! In general, relationships. Are two-way street! Sorry guys!!!!!

I know! What my job is to her. Not only to love unconditionally, be there for her, support, honor, pay attention to her, talk to her and for her to talk to me, to uplift her, put a smile on her face, make her laugh, be there in all her ups, downs, and in-betweens, to give her a voice in my world and our relationship, and then some!

For the guys! It all depends on how men are brought up as well. To some guys! I think they encounter more crap then do some women.

There are parents who not understand or comprehend! What we (YES! I am talking about us men & women!) went through. As kids. We do not “carbon copy” onto our kids as well. This! Is just one part of why the world is the shape that it is in!

We as a human race fail to understand is? I would say? Almost from the beginning of time. Our first parents did not know the how to’s of raising kids. So they played it by ear, by the seat of the pants style. Keep in mind! Life and times were much less complicated than it is today.

I have always believed! When we have kids of our own. We should give them a better life than what we had!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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IT AMAZES ME TO NO END THAT!

Here we are. In 2017! We have a President that most if not all America do not like/want. Entertainment personalities, expressing their dislike for some people. An NBA star’s home is vandalized with racial slurs. Bombing in parts of the world. All because (for all we know!) the world is not conforming and complying with Islam.

I can remember a time when? This! Was unheard of! Aside from the wars around the world both large and small.

What are we see now? Depending on one’s own definition(s)? A violation of freedom/free speech.

An upchuck! Of the days of racism all over again!

Our leaders and heroes of days gone by. Do not mean excrement in the here and now and in the future. If they saw? the way life and times are today? They would feel? Like? It was a waste of time and effort! They might be thinking? “Why? Did we even bother?”

In any! Race! We still fight among ourselves! And always will!

We as a nation and a world will always be in? “CHOKE MODE”

What do ourselves? We try (under the disguise of?) using “Political Correctness” to get other to conform and comply with what we want! But! There is a catch and a drawback on this! These same people! Who try to get us to conform and comply with what they want us to be/say! If we did it to them? The general response would be: How dare you!” when it’s: “Not! How dare you!” “But! How dare you?”

Simple solution! Do one’s combination of “Homework” and “Research” and learn what the term “Really” means! Not just because everyone does it! Why can I?

When you do that!

Are you being your own person? If so? Why are you do the same things? What is everyone else doing?

There is a saying. “If? everyone douses themselves with gasoline” “you would do the same as well?”

Do not say “NO” Because this is exactly what you yourself are doing!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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EVER HAD A TEACHER THAT?

 

Either you liked, loved, or? The “eat shit & die” teacher(s)?

The inconsistency! Of the whole school system itself. I am not looking for uniformity.

There are still! Teachers who love! With a passion! Yelling, screaming, hollering to their class. And think nothing of it! As if the kids do not have enough to be concerned about. How do these teachers know? The environment these kids live in? They do! not

The teachers I had? Most were women. Some very lovely. Some? Ugly af! But! My mom told me that! I got along better with male teachers.

From time to time! I would give some of the women teachers flowers from my mom’s flower bed.

There were four women teachers and one male teacher I that I really, truly, hated! That one. I can only say: “if murder was not a crime!” I think we as kids! Encountered teachers that are “NARCISSIST”! If you can recall! Some teachers that somehow picked out a child in the class. And made him/her look like? They cannot do crap!

I remember a Psychical education teacher who taught gym! Like it was “Boot Camp” From seventh grade on. Until I dropped out. He happened to pick me to fuck with! For no reason! A true narcissist if ever.

Another female teacher! She always! Had me staying after school for no reason. She would also! Grab my hair and move my head around. Normally! After she did that. I would put my hair down. One time I did not. I left it up. Went home. My mom asked me:: Who did that to you? I told her. The next day mom and I went to school. And she that teacher not ever to lay a hand on her son. Needless so say! There an exchange of words. And next thing you know! The principal showed up. She said to my mom: “Let’s continue this in my office”! The next day. I got transferred to a new homeroom and new teacher! My new teacher was a real “HOTTIE!”

I do believe! Teachers are good for one thing. Pissing a bitch and commiserating among other teachers. No teacher bothers to take into consideration. The background and home life of their students at all. Back then! Problems were not that many as there is today.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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