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HOW TO LIVE ON THE CHEAP! BUT! GOOD!

I will be updating this as time goes on.

From being on my own. For three years. I should know something!

From going to “Aldi’ to “GFS” (Gordon Food Service”) And all things in-between! There are many different ways.

I go to GFS to buy my favorites! Food service trays of lasagna to mac & cheese, ravioli, so much more. This helps me stretch my food supply until the next month.

What I do with the food service cans of “chef-boy-ardee’s” ravioli. I take the sauce and use it when making other kinds of pasta.

When? And where possible! Always! Buy in bulk!

What lots of people do not know is that! You can reduce your electric bill dramatically!

Simply be unplugging what items you are not using at the time. An electrician informed me about it. IT WORKS! You will see the difference in about 2-3 months! Provided you stick to it!

I am not a “coupon clipper!” I think it’s a waste of time! Provided you know where the good deals are? Even if in those places that accept coupons. You are that much further ahead.

Not many of us. Know that! When you have bottles of body wash, shampoo dish soap and then some. What I do is. Turn the bottles upside down. It may seem silly! But! In due time, you will see a difference. You will not be going to the store as much. And buying the same thing because of it.

In buying anything that hs the energy star on it. Do so. That is where you can really save! Only if! You have to! Do not go to these other grocery stores like Save-a-lot and others. Only if necessary.

Cell phones! This! Is one close to everyone’s heart! Always!!!! Look for the best talk, text, data rates you can find. Even if you have to buy the phone. Depending on. The data you use. It’s still the best way to go. Some have extras! It just takes the time to find it.

I need to point out! You still need “Landline” service. Because! If the power goes out. Or! The power grid goes down! What do you have left? Cell phones last while the battery does! Then what?

During the “cold months!” Is the heat still enough? Try “space heaters”. Even the low priced one’s work. Weatherproofing! Using plastic sheets can work as well. Do not! Buying something because it says it’s for covering the windows and doors. What it says! Vs. What it really does? Two different things.

TBC!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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I AM JUST GLAD IT’S ALL OVER!

From al the shit! I have encountered!

From bosses! To co-workers! And any/all in-between!

Bosses who are drunk with power. To “wannabe bosses” who try to gain the upper hand of their department. You know who you are! Attitudes, mentalities, screwballs! the list is endless!

Towards the end! There was one guy! Who was an abusive narcissist! He would pick on me, call me names to try to get me to quit! Did not work! This was a place that somehow? knew who to hire!

The people there. We’re either. Mama’s boys/Daddies girls! Aka! Spoiled rotten overgrown kids!! Who always got their ways! The woman who was in charge of HR! Made sure the women were taken care of. While the men! We’re treated as slaves to the women.

Way too much to loose sleep over!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO BELIEVES IN THIS? PT.1 ?

The reason I put a “?” at the end is that. I may come up with other things.

 

I would like to start out! With what I believe in.

I know! There are guys out there who believe in being the “HEAD” of the relationship! Right from the very beginning. I do not! You may ask why?

I believe that! The woman does know more than perhaps! The man does. But! It also depends on? the upbringing, education, what she has learned as she was growing up.

I believe! In general, relationships. Are two-way street! Sorry guys!!!!!

I know! What my job is to her. Not only to love unconditionally, be there for her, support, honor, pay attention to her, talk to her and for her to talk to me, to uplift her, put a smile on her face, make her laugh, be there in all her ups, downs, and in-betweens, to give her a voice in my world and our relationship, and then some!

For the guys! It all depends on how men are brought up as well. To some guys! I think they encounter more crap then do some women.

There are parents who not understand or comprehend! What we (YES! I am talking about us men & women!) went through. As kids. We do not “carbon copy” onto our kids as well. This! Is just one part of why the world is the shape that it is in!

We as a human race fail to understand is? I would say? Almost from the beginning of time. Our first parents did not know the how to’s of raising kids. So they played it by ear, by the seat of the pants style. Keep in mind! Life and times were much less complicated than it is today.

I have always believed! When we have kids of our own. We should give them a better life than what we had!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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IT AMAZES ME TO NO END THAT!

Here we are. In 2017! We have a President that most if not all America do not like/want. Entertainment personalities, expressing their dislike for some people. An NBA star’s home is vandalized with racial slurs. Bombing in parts of the world. All because (for all we know!) the world is not conforming and complying with Islam.

I can remember a time when? This! Was unheard of! Aside from the wars around the world both large and small.

What are we see now? Depending on one’s own definition(s)? A violation of freedom/free speech.

An upchuck! Of the days of racism all over again!

Our leaders and heroes of days gone by. Do not mean excrement in the here and now and in the future. If they saw? the way life and times are today? They would feel? Like? It was a waste of time and effort! They might be thinking? “Why? Did we even bother?”

In any! Race! We still fight among ourselves! And always will!

We as a nation and a world will always be in? “CHOKE MODE”

What do ourselves? We try (under the disguise of?) using “Political Correctness” to get other to conform and comply with what we want! But! There is a catch and a drawback on this! These same people! Who try to get us to conform and comply with what they want us to be/say! If we did it to them? The general response would be: How dare you!” when it’s: “Not! How dare you!” “But! How dare you?”

Simple solution! Do one’s combination of “Homework” and “Research” and learn what the term “Really” means! Not just because everyone does it! Why can I?

When you do that!

Are you being your own person? If so? Why are you do the same things? What is everyone else doing?

There is a saying. “If? everyone douses themselves with gasoline” “you would do the same as well?”

Do not say “NO” Because this is exactly what you yourself are doing!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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EVER HAD A TEACHER THAT?

 

Either you liked, loved, or? The “eat shit & die” teacher(s)?

The inconsistency! Of the whole school system itself. I am not looking for uniformity.

There are still! Teachers who love! With a passion! Yelling, screaming, hollering to their class. And think nothing of it! As if the kids do not have enough to be concerned about. How do these teachers know? The environment these kids live in? They do! not

The teachers I had? Most were women. Some very lovely. Some? Ugly af! But! My mom told me that! I got along better with male teachers.

From time to time! I would give some of the women teachers flowers from my mom’s flower bed.

There were four women teachers and one male teacher I that I really, truly, hated! That one. I can only say: “if murder was not a crime!” I think we as kids! Encountered teachers that are “NARCISSIST”! If you can recall! Some teachers that somehow picked out a child in the class. And made him/her look like? They cannot do crap!

I remember a Psychical education teacher who taught gym! Like it was “Boot Camp” From seventh grade on. Until I dropped out. He happened to pick me to fuck with! For no reason! A true narcissist if ever.

Another female teacher! She always! Had me staying after school for no reason. She would also! Grab my hair and move my head around. Normally! After she did that. I would put my hair down. One time I did not. I left it up. Went home. My mom asked me:: Who did that to you? I told her. The next day mom and I went to school. And she that teacher not ever to lay a hand on her son. Needless so say! There an exchange of words. And next thing you know! The principal showed up. She said to my mom: “Let’s continue this in my office”! The next day. I got transferred to a new homeroom and new teacher! My new teacher was a real “HOTTIE!”

I do believe! Teachers are good for one thing. Pissing a bitch and commiserating among other teachers. No teacher bothers to take into consideration. The background and home life of their students at all. Back then! Problems were not that many as there is today.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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IS THE EARTH REALLY FLAT?

 

This is one for the ages!

I have heard, read reports/stories. About how some people believe it is true. Two questions will remain until proven otherwise: How so”? “Prove it”?

If the earth is flat? There would be no kind/type of commerce/leisure at all. All ships would go over the edge & will not be seen/heard from again. Even the long, tall ships.

But! If let’s say “gravity” did play a part? Then it might be true. For now! It has yet to be proven.

Could it be? Conspiracy theorists? At work again? Those people should be in the “NUTHOUSE” “ASAP POST-HASTE! What do some people call them? “SHIT DISTURBERSBERS”

Unfortunately! People love a rumor! If not? Then Hollywood would not be Hollywood! And Trump would not be where he currently is! But that is another time.

Until those who believe the earth is flat? I will stick with the earth is round!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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ABUSIVE NARCSSIST! AKA THE EX!

WHAT IS NARCISSISTIC ABUSE?

NARCISSIST 

 

At the start!

When I met her. IDNK! What narcissism was! I used to call her a “hypocrite” But I was wrong.

It was not until I came across a tweet on twitter from psych central called: 12 signs to spot a narcissist. I read it. And she has the every one of them! I spent from Friday through the weekend to Monday! Researching it.

The interesting thing(s) about them. Is that if say, tell, call them a narcissist! They will deny it! Or you are wrong!

The links! Have the basic information needed to spot them!

One of many things they love to do is!

LIE! The ex-lied so much! It was like an addiction! She told me that! Her dad taught his kids to lie. (Keep in mind! Her dad is from WVA coal mining country. Him and his brothers, friends burned down the one-room schoolhouse.And they all were left with a sixth-grade education! In those days you lived by your wits! So lying was important to exist!)

When I was married to her. She used my name & SSI to make out credit card applications.

She pretended to be in love with me. But! As some of you know. There is a difference between. Going through the motions and saying “I love you”! and actually feeling it! Knowing it! That person does!

The ex did more things wrong than right.

They will come up with so many excuses of why they should sit on their asses! And the husband and kids should do any/all the work around the house.

I found another article about abusive narcissists. That! Is what got me started on this.

The narcissists mind! Is “really” screwed up!

They think nothing! About what comes out of their mouth! I can only describe what comes out of her mouth as? “cosmic” The most outrageous things I ever heard!

There was one time when! The cover plate on the hot water tank was missing. I asked her “what happened to it?” She said: IDK! “perhaps! one of the cats removed it”! I said: You mean? “one of the cats somehow sharpened one of their claws as Philips screwdriver and removed it”? She said: “that’s right”!

Narcissists! Also think thy work harder on the job than you! They make more money than you! They think they are WAY! smarter than you!

Hint! Narcissists! Come much shorter than they think! In actuality! They are no smarter than the next person! But! You cannot tell them that! It would be like? Knocking them off their pedestal! Their self-esteem is way beyond fragile! They do not mind hurting you! But! Do not you hurt them!

They are “one-way” people. They think! Any & all things should go in one direction! They do not like/love themselves at all! Because they do not know how nor anything about it. More than likely! It’s because of the way their parents were raised. This is a fact when it comes to her. Narcissists also think there is nothing wrong with them! They think it the other way around!

I am right! And all the world is wrong! Is the one too many philosophies they have going against them.

They will not! Seek mental help for their problem at all!

In some ways! At times! I do feel so very sorry for her. For the way, she was raised by her father. He did tell me many times. He raised his kids the same way he was raised. Because! The way he was raised. To him, there was nothing wrong. Little does he or his “young’uns know!

 

 

 

 

 

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