ADJUSTMENTS, ADULT, ALONE, BATCHLOR, DIVORCE, FREEDOM, LIVING, LOST ART, MARRIAGE, Uncategorized

HERE’S A PEEK INTO MY LIFE!

Ever since my one sister & I split!

I have slowly gotten my life back! But! I do thank her for being there for me. I do apologize! For the things, I said to still!!!!

My day begins with checking the email, news online, checking the bank rates for the highest rate available.

I had to find another bank because! Of a problem with at that time. The problem I had with it. And I did.

I found an online bank that offers “INTEREST” on checking accounts. No min. balances, no maintenance fees!

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From what I went through with the ex! I have to say that! I am getting into it!

My son comes over two times a month. Have lunch, watch GSN, talk does my laundry for me.

Most of the time! I watch tv, the net, go to bed!

The hard part about it is? Trying to forget about the past and move on! I think it’s because. I spent way!!!!!!!! Too long with them!

I am building my life once again. Without them! I held out hope for one too many years! with the ex.

I know! she is so very scared “SHITLESS” to get the divorce papers drawn up. Because of what she said & did to me!

NOW! I have to concentrate! On what I want! Instead of what I don’t want.

The women around here are not too bad at all! Diversity! Being what it is!

“ENJOY! YOUR “FREEDOM”! WHILE YOU CAN!

 

 

 

 

 

 

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THIS IS WHERE NARSSISUM MEETS COMPREHENSION! RESULTS? IDK????

After living with one! I have come to be! An “expert” in narcissism!

It all started when? She was a child. She wanted daddy’s attention. But then! Her youngest sister was born with CP.

All of mommy and daddy’s attention went to her sister with CP. She did not like that at all! So! She found that! The only way to getting daddy’s attention was? “Country music”  All!!!!!! She can! The artist, groups, songwriter(s), the label so on.

It was a moment in time! If nothing else. At least she did get her dad’s attention. Then! She got married. She even tried to get me to be just like her dad. Short lived at most.

Since she could not! The rest of the years were like? Being married to satan’s daughter!

As some of you who have read:”The life & times of a semi-Batchelor” You know what I went through. Those posts are gone.

Now! You know the “ROOT” of the problem!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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WHAT I LIKE/DON’T LIKE ABOUT LIVING ALONE?

In the 70’s song. Bluer than blue. It talks about being alone. YES! There are some things that are good, but not all things.

I like!

After about 37 years of living with a Narcissist! For a so-called wife? The conversion was hard at first, but in time I did get use to it. Sort of!

I can go when, where I want! Do what I want. Eat what I want and so on. Drink what I want/like, when I like, going for walks around the block.

No one monitoring me, no one telling me what to do, nagging me to death, kids venting at me with their mom cheering them on!

What don’t I like is!

Being all alone, no one to talk to, only TV, laptop, drinking lots of water, going to the bathroom one too many times!

IT’S! NOT BAD!

BUT! IT’S NOT GOOD EITHER!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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ALOME AGAIN! NATURALY! BUT! NOT BY CHOICE!

When i was on my own before I made the most blunderous choice of getting married. I was living on my own. And I did not like it at all. simply because most of my life. I was living with my parents.

Then! I made the choice of getting married. Then all things went downhill from there. Now! because of things that did happen! I have been on my own for a year and a half.

I went from! Being single, footloose, fancy-free! To being downtrodden, mentally beaten,  emotionally drained (aka all from being married!). To happier, laughing, enjoying my found freedom!

to those of you who read my blog of “THE LIFE AND TIMES OF A  SEMI-BATCHELOR”. You know what I went through.

The ex-being what she is? Is still trying to put any and all blame on me. Still trying to make herself the poor, defenseless woman.  Amazing! how some people who suffer from NPD,BPD and then some. Will seek sympathy from anyone, everyone they meet and encounter.

On the other hand, I can! Talk about it like? I was having a conversation with anyone.  The conversion was very hard! But over time. I got over it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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