When I was married to her! I did not give it any thought at all! As time went on! IDNKY? She was the way she was. But! Over 40 7years later. Now I do.
When she was living at home with her brother & sisters! In the mid 60’s. Her new sister came into the world. But! She had the biblical cord around her neck. Therefore! she has c/p.
All of her parents’ attention dramatically shifted away from her and her siblings to the youngest.
She (the ex!) did not like that one bit! She decided. In order to get daddy’s attention! Go for what dad likes/loves? “Country music!” She made sure! She knew any & all the songs, artist’s, record label so on. That! Got his attention. Short lived!
This was at a time when! Mom & dad drank their “take home pay.
Then Someone invited them to church. They got religion! They no longer drank. they were not “Christians!” So! She needed to shift again. To learning the bible! She did!
That too! short lived.
Because her parents’ attention was still directed their c/p daughter.
The next thing she did was? Marry me!
Why? You ask? Simple! When she married me! We had 2 kids. That got her dad’s attention. again! Short lived! Because her brother & sister had kids of their own as well.
So! My services were no longer needed! The rest of my life was living hell!
KEEP IN MIND! FROM DAY 1! SHE DID NOT LOVE ME AT ALL
I MUST HAVE TO BEEN! THE ONLY GUY IN THE WHOLE WORLD! DURING THE TIME I WAS MARRIED TO HER. TO HAVE ANOTHER FORM OF LEGALIZED SEX WITH HER!
Even her parents! Were and are! No angels either! They spoiled their c/p daughter. They programmed her to be their “slave”. For her to do whatever they wanted her to do! Even if it means? Ratting out her brother & sisters! She would do it!
But! At Christmas time! They would “richly” reward her for her efforts.
The way? I was treated by her? there are pet owners! Who treat their pets way better than she treated me!
And! She felt justified in doing so!
All this time! She used me to ger her dad’s attention.
Ther are times when I feel so very sorry for her. for the way, she turned out. And not knowing until it was way too late!
What her parents were doing! They all knew! But! Because daddy wielded all the power as to controlling his kids.
They DARE! Not cross daddy!
When kids live in a “dysfunctional” family! They tend to grow up with narcissism! I will let you! Look up that 1!