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What if Your Friend Does Not Want to Make Up

If your friend is still angry with you, he or she might want to stay away rather than make up.

Source: What if Your Friend Does Not Want to Make Up

When friendships “break up, end. The hardest part of all is! “Mending fences” Aka! Forgiving and moving on as friends. Sometimes there is no “as before” because one or the other has a different way, attitude about the two of you.

It is unfortunate that! We have not learned how to “forgive”. We are “HUMAN!”. We do make mistakes! We say, do things we don’t mean. I think the reason for that is! If and when! there is an argument. We say things in the “heat of the moment” just to get the “upper hand” in the argument. Then later? We regret what we said.

This! Is where/when we have an even tougher time in apologizing for what was said. Because! the other feels:”you said what you meant, that’s more than enough!”.

We can only wish! “Time heals all wounds!”.

 

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What if? We could create another life on another planet?

It’s just a thought but! What if?

I can remember my sixth-grade teacher telling the class: “Ir’s been said that there is life perhaps on the moon!” Keep in mind! this was in the late 60’s. While we were going to land on the moon in a short time.

But! What if we could do it? Would we start all over again? Start fresh? Almost from scratch?

What are some of the things we are doing wrong here? That! We could do differently if not make it better? Long list! I know!

The possibilities! that could exist for us. I don’t think. There is a planet that comes close to us in terms of? the air we breathe, foods we eat, drink and so on. What if there was?

Who are the people we pick to start this new way of life? How would we choose? Lottery? Examination (both mental and psychically), By Application? Want ads? First, come! first, serve? Who would want to? Age ltd.? This is not something for the “faint at heart!”

Would we still stay in touch with the folks down here?

Would this be like? the ISS? Send cargo into space at certain times?

Let’s just say that! We can do most anything on that planet as we do here. Would mankind/humanity! Change? We would leave all this behind and go to our new home. Only this time! We a race. Will make it much better.

Now! If only? We had the chance and the planet?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO BELIEVES IN THIS? PT.1 ?

The reason I put a “?” at the end is that. I may come up with other things.

 

I would like to start out! With what I believe in.

I know! There are guys out there who believe in being the “HEAD” of the relationship! Right from the very beginning. I do not! You may ask why?

I believe that! The woman does know more than perhaps! The man does. But! It also depends on? the upbringing, education, what she has learned as she was growing up.

I believe! In general, relationships. Are two-way street! Sorry guys!!!!!

I know! What my job is to her. Not only to love unconditionally, be there for her, support, honor, pay attention to her, talk to her and for her to talk to me, to uplift her, put a smile on her face, make her laugh, be there in all her ups, downs, and in-betweens, to give her a voice in my world and our relationship, and then some!

For the guys! It all depends on how men are brought up as well. To some guys! I think they encounter more crap then do some women.

There are parents who not understand or comprehend! What we (YES! I am talking about us men & women!) went through. As kids. We do not “carbon copy” onto our kids as well. This! Is just one part of why the world is the shape that it is in!

We as a human race fail to understand is? I would say? Almost from the beginning of time. Our first parents did not know the how to’s of raising kids. So they played it by ear, by the seat of the pants style. Keep in mind! Life and times were much less complicated than it is today.

I have always believed! When we have kids of our own. We should give them a better life than what we had!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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IT AMAZES ME TO NO END THAT!

Here we are. In 2017! We have a President that most if not all America do not like/want. Entertainment personalities, expressing their dislike for some people. An NBA star’s home is vandalized with racial slurs. Bombing in parts of the world. All because (for all we know!) the world is not conforming and complying with Islam.

I can remember a time when? This! Was unheard of! Aside from the wars around the world both large and small.

What are we see now? Depending on one’s own definition(s)? A violation of freedom/free speech.

An upchuck! Of the days of racism all over again!

Our leaders and heroes of days gone by. Do not mean excrement in the here and now and in the future. If they saw? the way life and times are today? They would feel? Like? It was a waste of time and effort! They might be thinking? “Why? Did we even bother?”

In any! Race! We still fight among ourselves! And always will!

We as a nation and a world will always be in? “CHOKE MODE”

What do ourselves? We try (under the disguise of?) using “Political Correctness” to get other to conform and comply with what we want! But! There is a catch and a drawback on this! These same people! Who try to get us to conform and comply with what they want us to be/say! If we did it to them? The general response would be: How dare you!” when it’s: “Not! How dare you!” “But! How dare you?”

Simple solution! Do one’s combination of “Homework” and “Research” and learn what the term “Really” means! Not just because everyone does it! Why can I?

When you do that!

Are you being your own person? If so? Why are you do the same things? What is everyone else doing?

There is a saying. “If? everyone douses themselves with gasoline” “you would do the same as well?”

Do not say “NO” Because this is exactly what you yourself are doing!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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WHAT’S IT LIKE BEING A KID ON WELFARE IN THE 60’s?

 

When you are a child on welfare. You do not know the word itself!

My dad was going in & out of jobs. He did not have much of an education. He had an eighth-grade education. So he was an “unskilled laborer My parents went on welfare.

I did not like the sound of it! I had some kids in the area. Thinking My parents were “well off” I could not stand and face the kids and tell them “my parents and I are on “welfare!”

We had to move from the near west side. To the very near west side. We spent about three years, living what was called at that time “Paradise for the poor” Because it was a public housing development for people who were either were on welfare or low income.

Either way! It was living in respect & dignity!

As a kid! Welfare took very good care of the three of us. Especially me!

Looking back. It was not as bad as I thought it was.Because in those days. As a kid! They made sure you breakfast to lunch, dinner everyday.

 

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WHO HAS NOT “BITCHED” ABOUT THEIR JOB?

 

There is not anyone among us! Who has not liked/loved anything about their workplace? If it is not the company, management, bosses! It’s the people the company hires!

Nutjobs! If ever! All of us carry some type/kind of mentality attitude about how “we” think work should be.

I have met employees! Who have tried to take control of a department! And “slowly!” try to call the shots by going over their bosses head to the President of the company. So that they think! They have s/he in their back pocket.

Only to find out! It “backfired” on them. By ending getting fired!!!!

You do have to give these “Nutjobs” credit! Only for the wasted effort, they made by staging a “Failed coup”

What happens to them after? They go from job to job! It would not surprise me if at their next job? They try Again. people who are supposed to be “in-charge Have this thing! About certain people. The so-called weak, kind of people the bosses go to a point where they abuse them. The bosses! Do find they ones to “Dump” on!

If you are a blue collar worker? Your boss does not care about how tired you are. Because there is a job to be done. When you are tired! So are your coworkers as well. Tempers flare! But! Your boss does not care. Since the job gets done! S/he sheepishly smiles about it!

It is because! Of the state’s employment law! That gives employers. Open hand on doing whatever the employer wants to do.

AFL-CIO can rant & rave about employers, workplace, laws, equal rights about the workplace all they want! What? Are they really doing about it?

Even the unions! Are more concerned about? Padding their own pockets before their members! They are still! Stuck in the 70’s! And how things were way back when?

Unions! Do not have what they used to have back then today!

They want you to think they do! But! In reality? They do! not

So! Where is the employee today? All buy them!

Consider yourself very lucky! If you find a company that has a good wages, benefits.

Unions today! Are still struggling in regaining what they had back then!

The workplace will not get better!

Because of the laws, employer, employees, unions, and the Powers that be!

 

 

 

 

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WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU COULD GO BACK IN TIME? AND PREVENTED AN INCIDENT IN TIME?

I’m sure some will say? The assassination of JFK! Of course! What about the assassination Abe Lincoln? MLK?

The making of the H-bomb? The starting of wars? Conflicts?

The point I’m trying to make is? With what we know today. Would we be able to prevent it?

All the things that went on in the past. Were made by what was known in those life & times.

What if? /We could go back? And save the human race?

What point in time would you want to save? And why?

 

 

 

 

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