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The worst! Has yet! To come!

Even the best of security measures and equipment. Or weapon laws. Cannot control people who want to do damage or take matters into their own hands!

What we are seeing! Are people who are either? Losing it in more ways than one! Or people are just “fed up” with the way things and this country is going/headed. The people who got elected (in certain methods/ways).

 

With terrorist organizations. It’s trying to get the world to go Islam!

But! At the cost of human lives?

No conscience! No respect of/for human life?

How do the ends justify the means?

 

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WHAT DOES IT TAKE? TO GET OUT OF AN ABUSIVE NARSSISTIC RELATIONSHIP?

 

I spent over 40 years in one! The ex! Nearly had me thinking, believing. I could not survive/live without her. Somehow I knew I could. The one too many things! About abusive narcissists are! They sat one thing but mean the other. They abusively “LIE” to a point it’s like an addiction with then. They lie so perfection to a fault that! Other fellow narcissists do not that the people they meet, talk to are “carbon copies” of them as well. They will believe in what they tell them and think nothing of it!

I had a so-called friend (if? He can be called that!) is a narcissist as well. I told both of them. If they ever got together and hit it off! In time! They would go at each other’s throats! And try killing one another! That is how much both of them have in one another. Both of them laughed at it. Normal!

No matter how much narcissism they have. You cannot tell them they are. Because they think they do not have any of it. They may know the word. But! They do not know the ingredients of it.

As unfortunate things do happen. All those years! She antagonized, harassed, pressured me. To do something. At the same time! She knew that I would not lay a hand on her. Then! Came the time! I could not take it at all!!!!!!

She ran her mouth off one too many times. She got What she came looking and wanted! I had the absolute. No choice! I slapped her! It could have been much worse! Considering the abuse I encountered and taken from her. Even I know that.

That was the one! She found me a place to live. Oddly enough!

To this day! I still wonder why? Did she even bother to reconnect with me and get married? No love at all. She pretended to be in love with me. There was nothing! That can/could be called love at all.

All I could think is this. When she and I got back together. I had a job, money, car, investments.

Her! A box that she called her “hope chest. AKA? “Pisspot poor!” And she did not like it one bit!

It’s very hard for a woman who is in one. To get out of it. For me? She made it seem like it was. The conversion was hard! But! I made it!

That one question will always remain! Why? Do they do it?

 

 

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ABUSIVE NARCSSIST! AKA THE EX!

WHAT IS NARCISSISTIC ABUSE?

NARCISSIST 

 

At the start!

When I met her. IDNK! What narcissism was! I used to call her a “hypocrite” But I was wrong.

It was not until I came across a tweet on twitter from psych central called: 12 signs to spot a narcissist. I read it. And she has the every one of them! I spent from Friday through the weekend to Monday! Researching it.

The interesting thing(s) about them. Is that if say, tell, call them a narcissist! They will deny it! Or you are wrong!

The links! Have the basic information needed to spot them!

One of many things they love to do is!

LIE! The ex-lied so much! It was like an addiction! She told me that! Her dad taught his kids to lie. (Keep in mind! Her dad is from WVA coal mining country. Him and his brothers, friends burned down the one-room schoolhouse.And they all were left with a sixth-grade education! In those days you lived by your wits! So lying was important to exist!)

When I was married to her. She used my name & SSI to make out credit card applications.

She pretended to be in love with me. But! As some of you know. There is a difference between. Going through the motions and saying “I love you”! and actually feeling it! Knowing it! That person does!

The ex did more things wrong than right.

They will come up with so many excuses of why they should sit on their asses! And the husband and kids should do any/all the work around the house.

I found another article about abusive narcissists. That! Is what got me started on this.

The narcissists mind! Is “really” screwed up!

They think nothing! About what comes out of their mouth! I can only describe what comes out of her mouth as? “cosmic” The most outrageous things I ever heard!

There was one time when! The cover plate on the hot water tank was missing. I asked her “what happened to it?” She said: IDK! “perhaps! one of the cats removed it”! I said: You mean? “one of the cats somehow sharpened one of their claws as Philips screwdriver and removed it”? She said: “that’s right”!

Narcissists! Also think thy work harder on the job than you! They make more money than you! They think they are WAY! smarter than you!

Hint! Narcissists! Come much shorter than they think! In actuality! They are no smarter than the next person! But! You cannot tell them that! It would be like? Knocking them off their pedestal! Their self-esteem is way beyond fragile! They do not mind hurting you! But! Do not you hurt them!

They are “one-way” people. They think! Any & all things should go in one direction! They do not like/love themselves at all! Because they do not know how nor anything about it. More than likely! It’s because of the way their parents were raised. This is a fact when it comes to her. Narcissists also think there is nothing wrong with them! They think it the other way around!

I am right! And all the world is wrong! Is the one too many philosophies they have going against them.

They will not! Seek mental help for their problem at all!

In some ways! At times! I do feel so very sorry for her. For the way, she was raised by her father. He did tell me many times. He raised his kids the same way he was raised. Because! The way he was raised. To him, there was nothing wrong. Little does he or his “young’uns know!

 

 

 

 

 

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WHO HAS NOT “BITCHED” ABOUT THEIR JOB?

 

There is not anyone among us! Who has not liked/loved anything about their workplace? If it is not the company, management, bosses! It’s the people the company hires!

Nutjobs! If ever! All of us carry some type/kind of mentality attitude about how “we” think work should be.

I have met employees! Who have tried to take control of a department! And “slowly!” try to call the shots by going over their bosses head to the President of the company. So that they think! They have s/he in their back pocket.

Only to find out! It “backfired” on them. By ending getting fired!!!!

You do have to give these “Nutjobs” credit! Only for the wasted effort, they made by staging a “Failed coup”

What happens to them after? They go from job to job! It would not surprise me if at their next job? They try Again. people who are supposed to be “in-charge Have this thing! About certain people. The so-called weak, kind of people the bosses go to a point where they abuse them. The bosses! Do find they ones to “Dump” on!

If you are a blue collar worker? Your boss does not care about how tired you are. Because there is a job to be done. When you are tired! So are your coworkers as well. Tempers flare! But! Your boss does not care. Since the job gets done! S/he sheepishly smiles about it!

It is because! Of the state’s employment law! That gives employers. Open hand on doing whatever the employer wants to do.

AFL-CIO can rant & rave about employers, workplace, laws, equal rights about the workplace all they want! What? Are they really doing about it?

Even the unions! Are more concerned about? Padding their own pockets before their members! They are still! Stuck in the 70’s! And how things were way back when?

Unions! Do not have what they used to have back then today!

They want you to think they do! But! In reality? They do! not

So! Where is the employee today? All buy them!

Consider yourself very lucky! If you find a company that has a good wages, benefits.

Unions today! Are still struggling in regaining what they had back then!

The workplace will not get better!

Because of the laws, employer, employees, unions, and the Powers that be!

 

 

 

 

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WHAT IS GOVERNMENT DOING WRONG/RIGHT?

 

Is it hard to say? What government doing right! Little is being done right (With our president proves it!).

Are they working for the good of whom they serve? Or! They themselves? Because it looks well on both! The resume’ and the family tree?

The campaign promises! Are as wide as the east is from the west! And north is from the south!

But they hope! No one will remind them of it! Say anything! If it gets you elected! Has always been that way it seems like! Since the beginning of time. For anyone who wants to get into politics. Should there be a mental evaluation? It seems to be in order (TY! Mr. President for the idea!). At any level!

Because of our current President! Since there is an age where one can run for President. There should be a “cut-off” in the age where one cannot make a run for it as well. This could be true at each level of Governments.

It’s sad! It only takes one! To ruin it for all!

 

 

Is it hard to say? What government doing right! Little is being done right (With our president proves it!).

Are they working for the good of whom they serve? Or! They themselves? Because it looks well on both! The resume’ and the family tree?

The campaign promises! Are as wide as the east is from the west! And north is from the south!

But they hope! No one will remind them of it! Say anything! If it gets you elected! Has always been that way it seems like! Since the beginning of time. For anyone who wants to get into politics. Should there be a mental evaluation? It seems to be in order (TY! Mr. President for the idea!). At any level!

Because of our current President! Since there is an age where one can run for President. There should be a “cut-off” in the age where one cannot make a run for it as well. This could be true at each level of Governments.

It’s sad! It only takes one! To ruin it for all!

 

 

 

 

 

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WHO IS YOUR? HERO, MENTOR, ADMIRE, FOLLOW?

We all have that someone who we like, love, learn, follow in our life. It does not matter! If it is someone who is either alive/deceased.

There is always something about that (special) person(s). YES! you can have more than one!

If it is someone from the past? Life & times were much simpler than Vs. today. But! Even way back then! there is still something to learn from them.

Even the ones who are not on our list. It’s their credibility as the person they were/are. That makes them significant/special/stand out.  What they said, did can and does make all the difference in the world. If they did not? We would not know or recall them.

Abe lincoln comes to mind! How he took on problems, issues of that time. More than likely! He knew. His decisions he made would not be popular or liked. But he knew they had to be made. And he did.

FDR! Is another one. YES! He started the Federal deficit. But given the times of the great depression. He too! Had to do what he had to do.

JFK! He was in the true sense! “COOL” in his decisions.

It’s been said that: “We need role models!”. No! Role models “FAIL!”. Because they are human too!

We do not see it! If we cann0t see “perfection” in ourselves? How can it exist? Simple! It does not!

Children! watch their parents more than the parents think they do!

Being a parent is much more of a serious job! then when out parents raised us!

WAY!!!!!! TOO!!!!!!!! MUCH!!!!!!! SHIT!!!!!! GOING!!!!!! ON!!!!! & DOWN!!!!!!!!!!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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POLITICAL CORRECTNESS! DON’T YOU THINK WE HAD ENOUGH OF THIS CRAP?

POLITICAL CORRECTNESS HISTORY OF  POLITICAL CORRECTNESS 2

Is it not the time to call it the end of an era with this  “political correctness”?

The term was first used in then communist Russia. It means:”tow the line when you speak about our leader and their administration”. Not! “walk on my eggshells the way “I” want you to!” AKA! “Do as I say not as I do!”

We have to be careful in what we think, say, do. When it comes to other people. But! These are the exact same people that if you did the very something to them? You would get:”HOW DARE YOU!” IT’S THE OTHER WAY AROUND!

In reverse! The “baby boomer” generation and back. Here in the USA! There was no such thing at all! We treated each other the way we would want to be treated. AKA! “common sense!”

If you look at newspapers of the past! You will find that in those days. We meant what we said! And! Said what we meant! Not! “water down” English as it is today! This crap about:”I don’t want to be verbally injured!” “GET OFF THE PILE!”

It is so very unfortunate! That we as a race, nation, the world. That we all! Are followers! The need to belong, accepted, fit in. Is far more important! Then just plain “getting along”.

Our basic human needs/wants. Will always be there!

I know! That’s old (school) fashioned!

IS IT REALLY?

WE ARE ALL WE HAVE!!!!!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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