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Top Republican among wounded as gunman fires on U.S. lawmakers | Reuters

Source: Top Republican among wounded as gunman fires on U.S. lawmakers | Reuters  

The worst! Has yet! To come!

Even the best of security measures and equipment. Or weapon laws. Cannot control people who want to do damage or take matters into their own hands!

What we are seeing! Are people who are either? Losing it in more ways than one! Or people are just “fed up” with the way things and this country is going/headed. The people who got elected (in certain methods/ways).

 

With terrorist organizations. It’s trying to get the world to go Islam!

But! At the cost of human lives?

No conscience! No respect of/for human life?

How do the ends justify the means?

 

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ABUSIVE NARCSSIST! AKA THE EX!

WHAT IS NARCISSISTIC ABUSE?

NARCISSIST 

 

At the start!

When I met her. IDNK! What narcissism was! I used to call her a “hypocrite” But I was wrong.

It was not until I came across a tweet on twitter from psych central called: 12 signs to spot a narcissist. I read it. And she has the every one of them! I spent from Friday through the weekend to Monday! Researching it.

The interesting thing(s) about them. Is that if say, tell, call them a narcissist! They will deny it! Or you are wrong!

The links! Have the basic information needed to spot them!

One of many things they love to do is!

LIE! The ex-lied so much! It was like an addiction! She told me that! Her dad taught his kids to lie. (Keep in mind! Her dad is from WVA coal mining country. Him and his brothers, friends burned down the one-room schoolhouse.And they all were left with a sixth-grade education! In those days you lived by your wits! So lying was important to exist!)

When I was married to her. She used my name & SSI to make out credit card applications.

She pretended to be in love with me. But! As some of you know. There is a difference between. Going through the motions and saying “I love you”! and actually feeling it! Knowing it! That person does!

The ex did more things wrong than right.

They will come up with so many excuses of why they should sit on their asses! And the husband and kids should do any/all the work around the house.

I found another article about abusive narcissists. That! Is what got me started on this.

The narcissists mind! Is “really” screwed up!

They think nothing! About what comes out of their mouth! I can only describe what comes out of her mouth as? “cosmic” The most outrageous things I ever heard!

There was one time when! The cover plate on the hot water tank was missing. I asked her “what happened to it?” She said: IDK! “perhaps! one of the cats removed it”! I said: You mean? “one of the cats somehow sharpened one of their claws as Philips screwdriver and removed it”? She said: “that’s right”!

Narcissists! Also think thy work harder on the job than you! They make more money than you! They think they are WAY! smarter than you!

Hint! Narcissists! Come much shorter than they think! In actuality! They are no smarter than the next person! But! You cannot tell them that! It would be like? Knocking them off their pedestal! Their self-esteem is way beyond fragile! They do not mind hurting you! But! Do not you hurt them!

They are “one-way” people. They think! Any & all things should go in one direction! They do not like/love themselves at all! Because they do not know how nor anything about it. More than likely! It’s because of the way their parents were raised. This is a fact when it comes to her. Narcissists also think there is nothing wrong with them! They think it the other way around!

I am right! And all the world is wrong! Is the one too many philosophies they have going against them.

They will not! Seek mental help for their problem at all!

In some ways! At times! I do feel so very sorry for her. For the way, she was raised by her father. He did tell me many times. He raised his kids the same way he was raised. Because! The way he was raised. To him, there was nothing wrong. Little does he or his “young’uns know!

 

 

 

 

 

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WHO IS YOUR? HERO, MENTOR, ADMIRE, FOLLOW?

We all have that someone who we like, love, learn, follow in our life. It does not matter! If it is someone who is either alive/deceased.

There is always something about that (special) person(s). YES! you can have more than one!

If it is someone from the past? Life & times were much simpler than Vs. today. But! Even way back then! there is still something to learn from them.

Even the ones who are not on our list. It’s their credibility as the person they were/are. That makes them significant/special/stand out.  What they said, did can and does make all the difference in the world. If they did not? We would not know or recall them.

Abe lincoln comes to mind! How he took on problems, issues of that time. More than likely! He knew. His decisions he made would not be popular or liked. But he knew they had to be made. And he did.

FDR! Is another one. YES! He started the Federal deficit. But given the times of the great depression. He too! Had to do what he had to do.

JFK! He was in the true sense! “COOL” in his decisions.

It’s been said that: “We need role models!”. No! Role models “FAIL!”. Because they are human too!

We do not see it! If we cann0t see “perfection” in ourselves? How can it exist? Simple! It does not!

Children! watch their parents more than the parents think they do!

Being a parent is much more of a serious job! then when out parents raised us!

WAY!!!!!! TOO!!!!!!!! MUCH!!!!!!! SHIT!!!!!! GOING!!!!!! ON!!!!! & DOWN!!!!!!!!!!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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HAS THE WORLD GONE CRAZY?

We hear of shootings, stabbings, murders, going off the very deep end of what happened last Tuesday! And then some.

Where? Did “common sense” go? I know! Because it’s not cool!!!!! “Political correctness” is!

Look at what it’s doing to us? Social media doesn’t help either. People posting where they are? What they are doing? And with who? They are with? Commenting on things that others do not happened to like!

Broadcasters! Are in on this as well! Rap, Hip-Hop artists are to blame as well! Telling young people in a fictional world! What the so-called real world is like. I know! It’s all “artistic expression”. How so?

“ROLL MODELS”! DON’T EVEN GO THERE!

Violence anywhere! & Everywhere? TV, movies, games.

Parents are to blame too! Or? should I say? Parent?

Election night! No one really knows! Why the sudden turn around! So what do we do? Protest something we cannot do until Trump takes the oath of office.

Whatever happened to? Taking things 1 at a time?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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