I have forty yrs. of experience in relationships/marriage.
All men and women are different! When it comes to these things. Some have this idea of the right girl. Women have that idea of the right guy. Unfortunately! They collide!
I had my idea of the right girl. But! As you know. It was not meant to be. Now! What have I in mind? Is not there.
It seems that! guys today. Are more into the play. Than any commitment of any kind/type to anyone. Sorry guys! But! Guys are not sure about anything/everything.They try to come off like they do but! They don’t!
There are women! Who are no better than the guys as well. There are intelligent, smart women. But! Some who only want a guy to take care of them forever. Those are the ones who are dumb as …..you know!
I would prefer a woman who I can talk, share, inform along the why. As for SEX? Of course! But! For me! sex is somewhere in-between (no play/pun intended).
Some men make the mistake of listening to what their friends tell them about women. It usually ends up being wrong. When boys grow up! They do take their cues from their dad. And when they do grow up (misleading I know!). They also listen to what their dads tell them or, they go by what they encounter on how dad treats their mom and carbon copy it.
Cheating! Why? Who knows?
Boredom, tiredness with the same person. Someone better? Perhaps! Not always.
Are we making a huge mistake? In our gf/bf? Wife? Only time will tell!