ABOUT, ADULT, BACHELOR, CHANGES, JOY(S),, Uncategorized

THE JOY(S) OF “BATCHLORHOOD”

 

It’s been about? Three years! Since I have been on my own.

I can get up! Get ready for whatever! Watch cable, drink, sometimes eat in the morning, check email, feed the kids (aka squirrels, blue jays, cardinals, chipmunk, sparrows, and the rest!). IF! “hard up” They will eat? Prunes! No preference at all! To them? “FOOD IS FOOD”

From the “Life & Times” that I went through with the ex! To now!

The conversion was tough! But! I did make it through. I do go through the same things as everyone does. Trying to make ends meet, pay bills, so on.

It’s in-between! That I have to say! I love the most. Get up when I want, eat whatever I want, watch/read whatever I want! AH! The love of being single again.

When I was single! It was hard. Because when I tried to hit on a girl! They wanted nothing to do with me. Now! I get hit up by women of all ages! But! At the time IDNK it!

I know! It’s not much of a life! But I am enjoying it! The peacefulness, quietness, freedom so much more.

Do I have? “1-sided conversations” with me? Yeah! But! Since I do not answer my own questions! I am doing all right!

Through my living room window! I can watch people, what little traffic there is, the changing of the seasons, watch the “kids eat” Bluejays! Are absolute “GREEDY” when it comes to food! They will SCREECH! When other birds even come close to them & their food!

I’ve learned to cut corners. When it comes to utilities! I unplug anything I am not using at that time. It does show on my bill. , I try to buy in bulk quantities when I go shopping.

YES! It’s a frugal life. But it beats when I was!

 

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GRADES, ME, MINDS, NARSISST, PARENTS, SCHOOL,, Uncategorized

WHO? HATES SCHOOL?

I DO!!!!!

I really do believe! That the teachers are the ones who screw up the whole thing and how we turn out.

I’m not saying that there should be conformity. Far from it! If you remember? Each teacher had their own way of teaching. For bragging rights? More than likely. Impress the principal? Doubt it! Parent(s)? NO WAY! NO HOW!

I had a physical education teacher. Who was a “NARCISSIST”! for some weird reason! He hated me! I did nothing wrong at all. But! He never did say why? Normal for people such as him.

In the 3rd. grade. I had a teacher who would grab my hair! And shake my head around. She was also the one at a time that, it was believed kids who were left-handed. Were from the devil! She would tie my left arm trying to get me to write right-handed. Did not work.

To this day! I still hate “HOMEWORK”. TO me! It’s stupid!

There were very few teachers that really got my attention.

The only fun thing about school? Kindergarten, recess, lunch, and going home when school lets out!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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ABOUT, ADJUSTMENTS, ADULT, ALONE, CHANGES, LIFE, LIVING, MARRIAGE, ME, NARSISST, PERSONAL, RELATIONSHIP, SOLO, Uncategorized

YES! I DID DECIDE TO GO SOLO! BUT!

There is life! after “near” death. That is being all by myself. Unfortunately! It does have it’s moment, highs, lows, and in-betweens.

After what I went through with her (the ex!). The conversion was hard at first. But I did make it.

Now! Not that I am looking. But I have had a few hit ups by young women. I did nor do I! Know what it takes to find a woman. As well as the how’ to’s. At this point in time. The phrase “you could have knocked me over with a feather” can and does apply.

I think the reason why is! What I had gone through with her. And ho I felt living with them and the conversion afterward, and not wanting a “Command performance”. Just might very well come into play.

Not having anyone to talk, hang with! Can be deafening! But this is as close to paradise as I can get.

Even if I do not find anyone. I think I can live with it!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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ADJUSTMENTS, ADULT, ALONE, FREEDOM, MARRIAGE, ME, NARSISST, RELATIONSHIPS, Uncategorized

I HAVE DECIDED! TO GO SOLO!

With what I went through with the wife!

I have decided to be alone. Being married to a narcissist for  a wife. And what she purposely put me through! I think it’s best to be by myself. If I don’t want to go through what I did.

I have tried online dating via facebook. All! Dead ends! There are some who claim to be from the USA! But when they or I im them. Then! They say they are from mostly? Africa or parts thereof

Since I don’t go out and mingle. Because my wild and crazy days have come and gone. I have found myself more of a homebody. I prefer to stay at home. Watch TV, the internet, water, soda, beer/wine (If I’m lucky!), food, snack here! Snack there!

There were some women who were like the ex! But when I read an article about not going through what I did. That changed things for me. I began thinking about. My situation.

I have enough money to live on, the usual things. and a little left over. The area is not bad, I’m within walking distance of what I need/want, people here are not that bad where I live.

I feed squirrels, birds, chipmunk, watch them come around and eat or bury their nuts. Deer as well. But! They don’t eat the nuts.

As quiet of a life as I do! It’s not bad. It could be better! But then again! For now I prefer to be alone!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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