"CHOKE MODE, $$$$$$$!!!!! MONEY MATTERS, GOP, MILLIONAIRE, MISTAKE, MOUTH, NARSISST, ORDERS, TONE,, POLITICS, RUN OFF AT THE MOUTH, Uncategorized

WE ARE SURROUNDED BY NARSISSTS! MOSTLY TRUMP & COMPANY!

One thing! If nothing else! Narcissists are very known for? “Running off at the mouth!” And think nothing of it!

Source: I was married to one! “Personal experience!” They will lie and so much more!

The things they say!!!!!!!!

Unfortunately! The same holds true for Pres. Trump & his choice of AK’er’s! Or? His choice of people who gave huge sums of money to his Presidential campaign! Otherwise! Why would they be there?

I think this will go down as one of the most! FUCK ED UP ADMINISTRATIONS OF ALL TIME!

The people he is putting in place, for the most part, have “NO GOVERNMENT EXPERIENCE! NONE WHATSOEVER!

The late Fmr. President Herbert Hoover. He & Trump shares a few things. Both are millionaires, have investments around the world. But! Hoover got the blame for the “Great Depression”.Hoover tried to do something about it. But! failed.

Now! Trump’s admin. is running off at the mouth. Kellyanne Conway! While in office. Promoted Ivanka Trump’s fashion line. Allegedly! She was counseled. The next day! Snuck one in!

Where? Is the Pres. Trump in all of this? Signing “Executive memorandums” aka Executive orders. http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/presidential-executive-orders-donald-trump-what-are-they-constitutional-limits-congress-anti-a7554231.html

 

Too much confidence? Or! IDC?

When he was running for President! He sounded like? He already is! Now? He sounds like he is giving a speech at some gathering!

This is not a “tear in!” to the Trump family at all!

It’s exercising one’s right of free speech! While it’s still here!

Before he takes that and other things! Away from us!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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ABOUT, BUMMER!, CONDITIONS, GOVERNMENT, MINDS, MISTAKE, MODE, PRESIDENT, WHITE HOUSE, WAR, HOPELESS,, PROBLEMS, STARWARS, SYSTEM, Uncategorized, WAR, WARS,

IRAN, NORTH KOREA WILL THEY LISTEN TO US(A)?

 

Here is where we do not really Know. Who is telling the truth? Or an exaggeration of the truth? Every Administration! Who had to work with these two countries. Should know that restrictions do work. Only to a point! No country! Will listen to what others tell them. This is so very normal.

Because it does interfere with what that country wants, can & does do. Would U.S. want sanctions put on them? I think not! But we ourselves! Do not want any wars either.

If these two countries are doing “self-preservation” or “self-protection” “National security”. Then why not? Perhaps! With inspections from time to time. But both parties have to be open and as one in agreement. But! Here again! What if’s abound!

It still! Ends up!

A “spy Vs, spy! Right out of mad magazine cartoon strip! Only! This is nothing to laugh/joke about. The odds and risks are a way to high to take lightly!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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ADJUSTMENTS, ADULT, ALONE, BACHELOR, DIVORCE, ENJOYMENT, EXPRESSION, FREEDOM, MARRIAGE, MISTAKE, NARSISST, SEPERATION, TRANSGENDER, Uncategorized

THE LIFE & TIMES OF A SEMI-BATCHELOR “THE SEQUEL! “MAYBE?”

So far! I have! Fallen inside my apt.! Had a hip replaced on my right side, broken my right shoulder. Working on my 3rd. year here. Got rid of the bugs that I had when I moved in on my own.

STILL! Married to her! But not for long!

My oldest son. Is still coming over & doing my laundry and having lunch twice a month.

Her! “still!!!!!” the same!

Gender bender! Fmr. my daughter now! An “IT!” still listens to her mom! More the pity!

I find that I am getting hit up! By lovely young women! Y? IDK?

I just started buying new clothes for myself. And on my 3rd. cell phone (long story!).

On the splitz! With my other sister (another long story!).

I find myself going to  “Aldi’s a lot, GFS, Walmart.

On occasion! I do smoke my cigars! No cheapies (plastic holder that come with those “cheap” cigars that young people will buy just to look sophisticated!). or aromatic!

Drink whatever I want!

Buy! whatever I want!

 

When you’re single! You think:”Is this all there is?” Then! You get married! And you start to think:”you know?” “single life was not all that bad after all!” Then separation/divorce comes.

Then! When you’re on your own! YES! My rediscovered freedom is here!

There is no such thing as? “New found freedom!”

You did not lose it! It was there all along!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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ABOUT, ADJUSTMENTS, CLASS, COMMUNICATION(S), CONDITIONS, EDUCATION, GRADES, KIDS, LEARN, MINDS, MISTAKE, SCHOOL, Uncategorized

NO WONDER! WE LEAVE HIGH SCHOOL ALL SCREWED UP!

 

Ever since the time. I went to school. Different teachers! different methodologies In teaching.

I can remember the one too many teachers. And how they taught us to learn, think. Some were strict! Some not too strict. Some in-between.

Now! I am not one for conformity! Far from  it!

But! If you remember? There was some that really got to us and made us really learn what they were teaching. And some? We would think to ourselves: “when is recess, lunchtime, end of school?”

I had teachers who used the yardstick, paddle, or! To the principal’s office. Like that worked! I had one teacher, who would grab my hair and move my head back & forth.

Keep in mind! At that time I was dealing with teachers who were so close! To retirement! But! Not close enough to suit me!

It’s the inconsistencies that screw us up! We go from one teacher to another, to another so on.

Teachers more than likely think:”if I can learn it!” “you can too!” CRAP!

Each child! Is different!

There’s a saying. “it’s not so much what you learn!” “it’s how you learn!”

To put it another way? For teachers. “it’s not what you teach!” But! “how you teach it!”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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ABOUT, ADJUSTMENTS, ADULT, COMMUNICATION(S), IS IT REAL?, LOVE, MARRIAGE, MINDS, MISTAKE, RELATIONSHIPS, Uncategorized

WHY DO MOST RELATIONSHIPS (EVEN MARRIAGE!) FAIL?

I have forty yrs. of experience in relationships/marriage.

All men and women are different! When it comes to these things. Some have this idea of the right girl. Women have that idea of the right guy. Unfortunately! They collide!

I had my idea of the right girl. But! As you know. It was not meant to be. Now! What have I in mind? Is not there.

 

It seems that! guys today. Are more into the play. Than any commitment of any kind/type to anyone. Sorry guys! But! Guys are not sure about anything/everything.They try to come off like they do but! They don’t!

There are women! Who are no better than the guys as well. There are intelligent, smart women. But! Some who only want a guy to take care of them forever. Those are the ones who are dumb as …..you know!

I would prefer a woman who I can talk, share, inform along the why. As for SEX? Of course! But! For me! sex is somewhere in-between (no play/pun intended).

Some men make the mistake of listening to what their friends tell them about women. It usually ends up being wrong. When boys grow up! They do take their cues from their dad. And when they do grow up (misleading I know!). They also listen to what their dads tell them or, they go by what they encounter on how dad treats their mom and carbon copy it.

Cheating! Why? Who knows?

Boredom, tiredness with the same person.  Someone better?  Perhaps! Not always.

Are we making a huge mistake? In our gf/bf? Wife? Only time will tell!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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ADJUSTMENTS, ADULT, ALONE, MARRIAGE, MINIMALIST, MISTAKE, Uncategorized

THERE IS LIFE! AFTER LIVING WITH A NARSISSIST!

In my saga of “the life & times of a semi-Batchelor”.

Yes! there is life after a “NEAR” death marriage. When I was living with them. She (the so-called wife! And them!) I was deprived of a lot of things by her. The things we need and want at any time, the normal things. She made so very sure. I did not get what (her husband!) needed and wanted.

During the time! I had TIA’S (mini strokes), becoming a minimalist, to getting the boot from them due to all the things over the one too many decades from her and then our gender-bending son!

When you have a spouse who is a (full-blown) narcissist! They will try! to get you to what they do not want to do themselves or convince you to do it for them because. Also! they will get you to conform and comply to what they want you to be. I did not!

It is interesting that. They if you don’t! They will create and even live in the hell they will create for you and your kids and think nothing of it at all.

They will lie, cheat, steal, refuse to pay bills in full on time. Always! buy cheap foods, items, restrict the spouse from going anywhere! And then some.

They do things in such a way that. They cannot really be blamed for anything. But yet! They always feel! Self-righteous, self-justified in any and all things they say and do. They hate to be told they are wrong!

Then! She accused me of giving her “diarrhea”. All from two voicemails, two text msgs.All! were non-violent!

About 3 yrs. ago. Due to circumstances, I will not go into. Her and our bender son. Gave me the boot and found a place for me to live on my own.

In the beginning! It was hard. I thought I was in some sort of “club fed” prison. They bought me the things I needed for the place. They bought me my food “or rations”for the month.

They did me a favor and a blessing in disguise!

I tried online dating. All dead ends because! Most on facebook claimed they are from the USA! But! They were from Africa or parts of it!

I have come to the decision of remaining solo!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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