ABOUT, BUILD, CONDITIONS, EXPRESSION, FAMILY, GENERATIONS, KIDS,, KIDS, RAISING, UPBRINGING, PARENTS,, LIFE, LIVING, LOVE, PARENTS, RELATIONSHIPS, Uncategorized

AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO BELIEVES IN THIS? PT.1 ?

The reason I put a “?” at the end is that. I may come up with other things.

 

I would like to start out! With what I believe in.

I know! There are guys out there who believe in being the “HEAD” of the relationship! Right from the very beginning. I do not! You may ask why?

I believe that! The woman does know more than perhaps! The man does. But! It also depends on? the upbringing, education, what she has learned as she was growing up.

I believe! In general, relationships. Are two-way street! Sorry guys!!!!!

I know! What my job is to her. Not only to love unconditionally, be there for her, support, honor, pay attention to her, talk to her and for her to talk to me, to uplift her, put a smile on her face, make her laugh, be there in all her ups, downs, and in-betweens, to give her a voice in my world and our relationship, and then some!

For the guys! It all depends on how men are brought up as well. To some guys! I think they encounter more crap then do some women.

There are parents who not understand or comprehend! What we (YES! I am talking about us men & women!) went through. As kids. We do not “carbon copy” onto our kids as well. This! Is just one part of why the world is the shape that it is in!

We as a human race fail to understand is? I would say? Almost from the beginning of time. Our first parents did not know the how to’s of raising kids. So they played it by ear, by the seat of the pants style. Keep in mind! Life and times were much less complicated than it is today.

I have always believed! When we have kids of our own. We should give them a better life than what we had!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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ABOUT, ABUSE, EDUCATION, KIDS,, KIDS, RAISING, UPBRINGING, PARENTS,, LEARN, MONEY, MOUTH, NARCISSIST, PARENTS, PROBLEMS, SCHOOL, TEACHER, TEACHERS, Uncategorized

EVER HAD A TEACHER THAT?

 

Either you liked, loved, or? The “eat shit & die” teacher(s)?

The inconsistency! Of the whole school system itself. I am not looking for uniformity.

There are still! Teachers who love! With a passion! Yelling, screaming, hollering to their class. And think nothing of it! As if the kids do not have enough to be concerned about. How do these teachers know? The environment these kids live in? They do! not

The teachers I had? Most were women. Some very lovely. Some? Ugly af! But! My mom told me that! I got along better with male teachers.

From time to time! I would give some of the women teachers flowers from my mom’s flower bed.

There were four women teachers and one male teacher I that I really, truly, hated! That one. I can only say: “if murder was not a crime!” I think we as kids! Encountered teachers that are “NARCISSIST”! If you can recall! Some teachers that somehow picked out a child in the class. And made him/her look like? They cannot do crap!

I remember a Psychical education teacher who taught gym! Like it was “Boot Camp” From seventh grade on. Until I dropped out. He happened to pick me to fuck with! For no reason! A true narcissist if ever.

Another female teacher! She always! Had me staying after school for no reason. She would also! Grab my hair and move my head around. Normally! After she did that. I would put my hair down. One time I did not. I left it up. Went home. My mom asked me:: Who did that to you? I told her. The next day mom and I went to school. And she that teacher not ever to lay a hand on her son. Needless so say! There an exchange of words. And next thing you know! The principal showed up. She said to my mom: “Let’s continue this in my office”! The next day. I got transferred to a new homeroom and new teacher! My new teacher was a real “HOTTIE!”

I do believe! Teachers are good for one thing. Pissing a bitch and commiserating among other teachers. No teacher bothers to take into consideration. The background and home life of their students at all. Back then! Problems were not that many as there is today.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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CONDITIONS, PARENTS, Uncategorized

WHAT’S IT LIKE BEING A KID ON WELFARE IN THE 60’s?

 

When you are a child on welfare. You do not know the word itself!

My dad was going in & out of jobs. He did not have much of an education. He had an eighth-grade education. So he was an “unskilled laborer My parents went on welfare.

I did not like the sound of it! I had some kids in the area. Thinking My parents were “well off” I could not stand and face the kids and tell them “my parents and I are on “welfare!”

We had to move from the near west side. To the very near west side. We spent about three years, living what was called at that time “Paradise for the poor” Because it was a public housing development for people who were either were on welfare or low income.

Either way! It was living in respect & dignity!

As a kid! Welfare took very good care of the three of us. Especially me!

Looking back. It was not as bad as I thought it was.Because in those days. As a kid! They made sure you breakfast to lunch, dinner everyday.

 

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GRADES, ME, MINDS, NARSISST, PARENTS, SCHOOL,, Uncategorized

WHO? HATES SCHOOL?

I DO!!!!!

I really do believe! That the teachers are the ones who screw up the whole thing and how we turn out.

I’m not saying that there should be conformity. Far from it! If you remember? Each teacher had their own way of teaching. For bragging rights? More than likely. Impress the principal? Doubt it! Parent(s)? NO WAY! NO HOW!

I had a physical education teacher. Who was a “NARCISSIST”! for some weird reason! He hated me! I did nothing wrong at all. But! He never did say why? Normal for people such as him.

In the 3rd. grade. I had a teacher who would grab my hair! And shake my head around. She was also the one at a time that, it was believed kids who were left-handed. Were from the devil! She would tie my left arm trying to get me to write right-handed. Did not work.

To this day! I still hate “HOMEWORK”. TO me! It’s stupid!

There were very few teachers that really got my attention.

The only fun thing about school? Kindergarten, recess, lunch, and going home when school lets out!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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