ABOUT, ADJUSTMENTS, ADULT, ALONE, CHANGES, LIFE, LIVING, MARRIAGE, ME, NARSISST, PERSONAL, RELATIONSHIP, SOLO, Uncategorized

YES! I DID DECIDE TO GO SOLO! BUT!

There is life! after “near” death. That is being all by myself. Unfortunately! It does have it’s moment, highs, lows, and in-betweens.

After what I went through with her (the ex!). The conversion was hard at first. But I did make it.

Now! Not that I am looking. But I have had a few hit ups by young women. I did nor do I! Know what it takes to find a woman. As well as the how’ to’s. At this point in time. The phrase “you could have knocked me over with a feather” can and does apply.

I think the reason why is! What I had gone through with her. And ho I felt living with them and the conversion afterward, and not wanting a “Command performance”. Just might very well come into play.

Not having anyone to talk, hang with! Can be deafening! But this is as close to paradise as I can get.

Even if I do not find anyone. I think I can live with it!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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BUSINESS, CONDITIONS, ENJOYMENT, FREEDOM, LAW(S), LIFE, LIVING, MONEY, PEOPLE, PERSONAL, PRICE, SMOKING, STORES, WANTS, WHY?

SMOKING! THE AGE OLD ISSUE!

 

EVEN TO THIS DAY!

I DO NOT UNDERSTAND. WHY? PEOPLE STILL SMOKE? BUT THEY DO!

WITH THE COST OF FEEDING ONE’S OWN ADDICTION. WHY BOTHER?

PLACES WHERE PEOPLE CANNOT SMOKE. DO EXIST BECAUSE OF EITHER LAWS! OR! THAT IS THE WAY THE OWNERS WANT IT. WHEN SMOKING WAS AN ACCEPTED THING. RESTAURANTS WOULD HAVE WHAT THEY CALL: “NON-SMOKING AREA”. WHAT NON-SMOKING AREA? THE SMOKE DOES TRAVEL! REALLY IT DOES!

WHEN BUSINESSES! WANTED THEIR EMPLOYEES TO SMOKE,”OUTSIDE”. THEY DID. WITH NO THOUGHT ABOUT THEIR HEALTH OR OF OTHERS AT ALL.

IS SMOKING A “GOD GIVEN RIGHT”? OR! A PERSONAL CHOICE TO SMOKE?,

I KNOW! MY (SOMEONE IN THE FAMILY) SMOKES SINCE THEY WERE “WHATEVER AGE” AND THEY ARE STILL LIVING!

WITH WHAT WE KNOW ABOUT IN GEN. SMOKING. WHY EVEN BOTHER?,

I HAVE SEEN! SMOKERS SCROUNGE THE OUTDOOR ASHTRAYS. JUST TO FIND A SLIGHTLY USED CIGARETTE BUT TO SMOKE A LITTLE MORE. IS IT COST? OR! BEING “HARD UP” FOR A SMOKE?

IF IT’S AN EXPENSIVE HABIT? FULL-TIME CONSIDERATION IS IN ORDER.

FOR THOSE PEOPLE WHO SMOKE! “KISS A NON-SMOKER!” “AND TASTE THE DIFFERENCE!”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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ADULT, BENEIFITS, BUMMER!, CLASH, FLEXABILITY, FUTURE, HAPPINESS, LIFE, LIVING, PASSION, PEOPLE, PERSONAL, RELATIONSHIPS, RUN OFF AT THE MOUTH, THOUGHT, Uncategorized

LIVE! & LET LIVE! OR CAN WE?

FROM THE TIME I WAS GROWING UP!

THERE WAS ALWAYS THIS? THING! ABOUT “CONFORM & COMPLY!”. WITH MY PARENTS HAVING BEEN RAISED WITH ABUSE. I ENDED UP BEING PARENTED BY BARE BONE WAYS & MEANS.

I DID THINGS THAT! IF MY PARENTS EVER FOUND OUT? WELL! NEEDLESS TO SAY!

I WAS NOT THE TYPICAL CHILD AS OTHER KIDS WERE. AND! BECAUSE OF IT! I GOT BULLIED BUY THE GUYS.

THIS WAS AT A TIME WHEN. THE KIDS WHAT THEY WERE TOLD. ALL BUT ME! I WAS NOT THE BEST STUDENT! BUT! IN THE “OLD” DAYS. THE SCHOOL SYSTEM WOULD GRADE STUDENTS ON JUST ABOUT ANYTHING/EVERYTHING THAT YOU DID.

EXAMPLE: “IS POLITE & KIND?” I ALWAYS! GOT AN “A” TO “B” ON THAT ONE. EVERYTHING ESLE? ALL “F’S!”

AS TIME WENT ON! I BECAME A LONER! KIDS IN THE AREA DID NOT WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH ME. I HAD CONFRONTATIONS WITH THEM. TO ME? NORMAL! ID DI NOT KNOW WHY. BUT IN MY LATER YRS.

I DID FIND OUT WHY. “I WAS DIFFERENT!”.

LIKE ALL THE OTHER KIDS BUT! THEN AGAIN? “NOT!”. GROWING UP! I DID NOT KNOW THAT THERE WAS SUCH A THING AS “CONFORM & COMPLY! FOLLOW ANYONE! DON’T GO OUTSIDE THE LINES. AND YOU WILL BE FINE.

NOT!

YEAH! I DID RUB A FEW PEOPLE THE WRONG WAY! BUT  HEY! I WAS A KID WITH NO PARENTAL SUPERVISION IF ANY.

BEING DIFFERENT! DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU WILL FIND YOURSELF? ALL BY YOURSELF.

THE POINT I AM TRYING MAKE HERE IS!

EVEN WITH “POLITICAL CORRECTNESS!” YOU CAN “STILL” BE YOURSELF. ALL IT REALLY DOES IS?  PEOPLE TRY TO GETTING PEOPLE TO “CONFORM & COMPLY” TO WHAT OTHERS WANT YOU TO DO/BE!

IF! PEOPLE ONLY KNEW! THE “REAL”TRUE” DEFINITION OF IT?

IT’S JUST THAT! WE HAVE EITHER BEEN TOLD OR TAUGHT TO DO. WHAT ANYONE/EVERYONE THINKS, SAYS, DOES. AND YOU WON’T GO WRONG.

“BULLSHIT!!!!!”

IF YOU DON’T SAY “GOOD-BYE” TO THEW THINGS YOU KNOW! AND “HELLO” TO THE THINGS YOU DON’T! YOU ARE DOING MORE THAN JUST SCREWING YOURSELF! YOU ARE ALSO DEPRIVING YOURSELF AT THE SAMETIME!

DURING MY TIME GROWING UP! YES! I GOT CRITIQUED & CRITICISED FOR NOT RUNNING WITH THE PACK. THINKING THE WAY OTHERS THINK, SAY, DO.

I HAVE MET PEOPLE. WHO DO FIND ME AS “DIFFERENT”.  BUT NOT LIKE THE REST OF THEM.

IT’S ALL A MATTER OF? BEING YOURSELF! AND NOT CONCERNING YOURSELF WITH WHAT YOU WANT TO THINK, SAY, DO IN THIS WORLD.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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CRIMES, ID STOLEN, INFORMATION, INSECURITY, MATH, MONEY, PEOPLE, PERSONAL

Users of prepaid debit cards find their tax refunds frozen

Source: Users of prepaid debit cards find their tax refunds frozen

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If! You scroll down to the comments!

You will see people so very “out-of-touch”! With reality!

Prepaid credit cards of any type/kind there is. It is a matter of convenience & personal security. Also! They are for people who either do not have. no to bad credit, cannot handle a checking account.

Checking accounts! Are ever so very easy to screw up! Because! It can be any number of things. Do not keep track of the number of checks they made out, cannot leave the money in the account to cover whatever that needs to be paid  or they think that they can “beat” the system before the system really beats them! And then some!

It’s the very thought of just having that money still there! That makes some of us! Go wild to nuts because of it.

 

As for tax fraud? There will always be! Shucksters among us! Like “Death & Taxes!” Inevitable! Unavoidable!

Blame the ID theft people! Not the IRS or the people who use prepaid credit cards!

 

“IT ONLY TAKES ONE!” “TO RUIN IT FOR ALL!?

 

 

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