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The worst! Has yet! To come!

Even the best of security measures and equipment. Or weapon laws. Cannot control people who want to do damage or take matters into their own hands!

What we are seeing! Are people who are either? Losing it in more ways than one! Or people are just “fed up” with the way things and this country is going/headed. The people who got elected (in certain methods/ways).

 

With terrorist organizations. It’s trying to get the world to go Islam!

But! At the cost of human lives?

No conscience! No respect of/for human life?

How do the ends justify the means?

 

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ABOUT, BUILD, CONDITIONS, EXPRESSION, FAMILY, GENERATIONS, KIDS,, KIDS, RAISING, UPBRINGING, PARENTS,, LIFE, LIVING, LOVE, PARENTS, RELATIONSHIPS, Uncategorized

AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO BELIEVES IN THIS? PT.1 ?

The reason I put a “?” at the end is that. I may come up with other things.

 

I would like to start out! With what I believe in.

I know! There are guys out there who believe in being the “HEAD” of the relationship! Right from the very beginning. I do not! You may ask why?

I believe that! The woman does know more than perhaps! The man does. But! It also depends on? the upbringing, education, what she has learned as she was growing up.

I believe! In general, relationships. Are two-way street! Sorry guys!!!!!

I know! What my job is to her. Not only to love unconditionally, be there for her, support, honor, pay attention to her, talk to her and for her to talk to me, to uplift her, put a smile on her face, make her laugh, be there in all her ups, downs, and in-betweens, to give her a voice in my world and our relationship, and then some!

For the guys! It all depends on how men are brought up as well. To some guys! I think they encounter more crap then do some women.

There are parents who not understand or comprehend! What we (YES! I am talking about us men & women!) went through. As kids. We do not “carbon copy” onto our kids as well. This! Is just one part of why the world is the shape that it is in!

We as a human race fail to understand is? I would say? Almost from the beginning of time. Our first parents did not know the how to’s of raising kids. So they played it by ear, by the seat of the pants style. Keep in mind! Life and times were much less complicated than it is today.

I have always believed! When we have kids of our own. We should give them a better life than what we had!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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I KNOW! IT’S A CLASSIC! BUT! IT’S STILL HOLLYWOOD TO ME!

Even though! I was born in the “BABYBOOMER” generation.

The classic movies of old to me. Holds something very interesting. The life and times of that day. The styles, interior/exterior of buildings.

The one thing! That I do find interesting is? The cigarette! Was more than likely hired than that of the actors themselves! There were not that many movies that did not have/use the “COFFIN TACKER!”

The black and white movies! I think it gave us a way of using our imagination. Thinking, wondering what it would look like if I lived in that time? I can only imagine.

In those times! The writing was excellent! There were some that? Passable to crappy! It may have been just something to throw onto the movie screen. And see if it makes money?

In all! Watching old movies! It does give us a bit of a glimpse! Into the past.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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IT AMAZES ME TO NO END THAT!

Here we are. In 2017! We have a President that most if not all America do not like/want. Entertainment personalities, expressing their dislike for some people. An NBA star’s home is vandalized with racial slurs. Bombing in parts of the world. All because (for all we know!) the world is not conforming and complying with Islam.

I can remember a time when? This! Was unheard of! Aside from the wars around the world both large and small.

What are we see now? Depending on one’s own definition(s)? A violation of freedom/free speech.

An upchuck! Of the days of racism all over again!

Our leaders and heroes of days gone by. Do not mean excrement in the here and now and in the future. If they saw? the way life and times are today? They would feel? Like? It was a waste of time and effort! They might be thinking? “Why? Did we even bother?”

In any! Race! We still fight among ourselves! And always will!

We as a nation and a world will always be in? “CHOKE MODE”

What do ourselves? We try (under the disguise of?) using “Political Correctness” to get other to conform and comply with what we want! But! There is a catch and a drawback on this! These same people! Who try to get us to conform and comply with what they want us to be/say! If we did it to them? The general response would be: How dare you!” when it’s: “Not! How dare you!” “But! How dare you?”

Simple solution! Do one’s combination of “Homework” and “Research” and learn what the term “Really” means! Not just because everyone does it! Why can I?

When you do that!

Are you being your own person? If so? Why are you do the same things? What is everyone else doing?

There is a saying. “If? everyone douses themselves with gasoline” “you would do the same as well?”

Do not say “NO” Because this is exactly what you yourself are doing!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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PARENT(S), SCREWIER, RAISING, KIDS, ABUSE,, Uncategorized

WE TAKE A LOT OF CRAP IN THE WORLD BUT!

 

Do we have to keep the cycle going?

From the time we are able to understand and comprehend. From our parents, kids on the street, school, workplace, and all around us. We encounter many different kinds/types of abuse. Verbal and psychical.

From our parents! They clearly! Do not know the how to’s of raising a child. So! What do they do? Repeat what they experienced from their parents. And pass it on down to their kid. Aside from the child. Basic parenting is relatively easy. Unfortunately! Do we not know what? “Common sense” is all about!

When I was raising my kids. What I did was? Do the opposite of what my parents did. That means? Being a better parent to my kids. Then my parents were to me. I was a much better father to them.

Of course! they encountered the same things We all did when we were growing up as well.

The whole idea of parenting is? Giving our kids a better life growing up. Then we did. But! No one is getting it! Why? Simple! We only concern ourselves with knowing how to make a buck! And doing what it takes to survive. That is it!

What happens to the kids? It ends being something similar to what I went through with my parents. The least amount of parenting.

Then! The kids end up learning either from the streets! Or via rap, hip-hop artists or both! I am not one for “role models!” Because! Even role models fail! Gone! Are those days!

It is very hard! To stop the cycle of abuse. In one form or another. And try not to pass it on to our kids.

If we cannot find/figure out. How to raise our kids the way they should be raised? They will end up even screwier than we are!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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&! SHE THOUGHT I WOULD NOT (MAKE IT!) SURVIVE!

On 09/01/2014!

 

The ex (wishful thinking at this point!) thought I would not make it. This is what happens when you are married to an abusive narcissist! They are mostly found in men. Some women as well.

They are mostly found in men. Some women as well. Abusive narcissist makes you think, feel, believe! You cannot do a thing without them. Little did she know! With the help of my “half” sister. I was able to reprogram and convert to the single life again. It was hard! But I made it!

I can! Eat, drink, smoke, get whatever I want! Without her telling me; badlyThat’s too expensive”! “That! Will shoot up your blood sugar”! The list is endless!

No more! Arguments, yelling, screaming, hollering all from out of nowhere! The abusive narcissist will start things and accuse you of anything/everything. They love to blame the spouse for doing this! Doing that! But do not you blame them fo the crap they do/says! They do want to hear of it. Even though they create their own problems and blame you for it.

I know! She has told her brother and sisters how dumb I am. How bad I treated her (when it’s the other way around!). They love to make them look good! While mouthing you behind your back, sometimes in front of you.

I have seen what is called “The family portrait”! She stands out bigger than the capital rotunda! That’s because! When we were expecting kids! And after. She let herself go! That’s why! Even her dad nagged her about losing it. In one ear! Out the other!

Now! I do not have to go through all that!

It does have its moments. Where it does get lonely at times. But! None of her to be had.

Has all this made me bitter? I do not think so!

Although! It has made me even more cautious in finding someone. All because of the “abusive narcissist”!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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